{"id":10652,"date":"2019-06-24T08:40:19","date_gmt":"2019-06-24T14:40:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.reliefsocietywomen.com\/?p=10652"},"modified":"2019-06-23T11:05:54","modified_gmt":"2019-06-23T17:05:54","slug":"hinges-pride-and-disillusionment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.reliefsocietywomen.com\/blog\/2019\/06\/24\/hinges-pride-and-disillusionment\/","title":{"rendered":"Hinges, Pride, and Disillusionment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I remember the talk President Gordon B. Hinckley gave, in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.churchofjesuschrist.org\/study\/general-conference\/1984\/04\/small-acts-lead-to-great-consequences?lang=eng\">April 1984 General Conference<\/a> closing address. He speaks of hinges. Gate hinges are typically a small mechanism that holds a gate in place. It doesn\u2019t need to be very big to do its job. But its simple job allows a gate to open wide.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Small, seemingly insignificant events can open the gate for much larger events for good or bad. Often, when the gate is left wide open, pride and disillusionment enter in unchecked. In this case, Pres. Hinckley relates the story of Thomas B. Marsh and the episode of his wife\u2019s milk bargain with a neighbor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The wives had agreed to share their milk to make cheese. Sis. Marsh held back the cream which was included in the agreement. Instead of admitting this small omission and humbly apologizing for it, Thomas (then president of the Quorum of the Twelve) presented and argued the case to several local leaders, and even to the First Presidency. Each one said he and his wife were wrong and should apologize. In retaliation and hurt pride, he went to the magistrate in Missouri and said the \u201cMormons\u201d were hostile. This is what led to the extermination order that took place in the winter and was so devastating to our Saints.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">All of us have experienced small things that balloon into something so much bigger. In this case, the effects were terrible for the Marshes (they left the church) and horrible for others (innocent people becoming victims).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Many years later, Thomas asked to return to membership in the church. George A Smith recorded Thomas\u2019 return.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cHe lost his testimony of the gospel. For nineteen years he walked in poverty and darkness and bitterness, experiencing illness, and loneliness. He grew old before his time. Finally, like the prodigal son in the parable of the Savior, he recognized his foolishness and painfully made his way to this valley, and asked Brigham Young to forgive him and permit his rebaptism into the Church.\u201d<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">With so many changes happening in our church and the church allowing complete transparency on several issues in question, people are talking about a great sifting that is occurring with the membership of the church. While the church opens its gate in full disclosure, we, as members, shouldn\u2019t be grabbing the handle and flinging the gate wide open for our own unholy purposes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Members, who hold such promise, are leaving the church over small things that they have made big. They have put their membership at stake to prove something of little worth. Pres. Hinckley says,<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cIt is so easy to stumble. It is sometimes so hard to keep our voices low when small things provoke us.\u201d<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">At what cost do we let our pride show? What purpose do we gain by standing on our false sense of righteousness?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Our prophets remind us to watch our pride, for this is what destroyed the Nephites. They urge us to walk in humility. At each conference, we hear how the church is doing and we hear how membership continues to grow. And we are reminded to check ourselves that small digressions don\u2019t grow into monumental chasms. Pride always causes disillusionment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">It is so hard to cross back over to safe ground. Let pride go. Don\u2019t feed your disillusionment. Instead, trust in your faith. Trust the words of the prophet. Hold on to what you know. Feed your testimony daily.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I remember the talk President Gordon B. Hinckley gave, in the April 1984 General Conference closing address. He speaks of hinges. Gate hinges are typically a small mechanism that holds a gate in place. It doesn\u2019t need to be very big to do its job. But its simple job allows a gate to open wide. 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