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thus our princes and princesses must be trained and qualified for glory.<\/p>\n<p>All of us should be regularly holding Family Prayer, Family Scripture Reading, and Family Home Evening with our families.\u00a0 It is the Priesthood\u2019s responsibility to see that they happen, but it is the Relief Society\u2019s responsibility to support and sometimes remind.<\/p>\n<p>Societal remedies will come from God-centered homes.\u00a0 Strong families, with loving couples at the helm, will bring safety, happiness, and love back into our culture.<\/p>\n<p>The Relief Society is not just a Sunday lesson.\u00a0 It is a factory where training can occur.\u00a0 We are each other\u2019s teachers.\u00a0 We are each other\u2019s support group.\u00a0 We have been urged by our leaders to generate activities\u2014not for entertainment purposes\u2014but to become better people as we prepare for our eternal futures.<\/p>\n<p>This goal would also include homemaking skills, which I think we have overdone over the years.\u00a0 Our emphasis should not be on having the best decorated home (or at least one that has the same crafts as every other house) on the block.\u00a0 Our emphasis should be on proper care and cleanliness techniques.\u00a0 And most importantly, these skills should be taught to our young women.\u00a0 The Relief Society can do much in the way of teaching our young women homemaking, parenting, and marriage skills.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve selected what I think are the greatest concerns we, as women of the church, should be focusing on.\u00a0 I realize this is a bold statement and I welcome any additions to this list.\u00a0 But if you agree with me, please comment and share your experiences.\u00a0 I am posting them as separate goals, and they [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,9],"tags":[93],"class_list":["post-344","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","category-motherhood","tag-strong-marriages"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>GOAL #1 OUR HEARTS BELONG TO, AND MUST PROMOTE, STRONG MARRIAGES AND STRONG MOTHERS &#8211; 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