{"id":5484,"date":"2012-05-19T21:31:57","date_gmt":"2012-05-20T03:31:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/?p=5484"},"modified":"2012-05-19T21:32:48","modified_gmt":"2012-05-20T03:32:48","slug":"you-want-me-to-take-dinner-over","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.reliefsocietywomen.com\/blog\/2012\/05\/19\/you-want-me-to-take-dinner-over\/","title":{"rendered":"You Want Me To Take Dinner Over!!!?!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Our Guest Post today is from Michaela Stephens. Her blog can be found <a title=\"here\" href=\"http:\/\/http:\/\/scriptoriumblogorium.blogspot.com\/\/?p=13\">here<\/a>.<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p>I have a confession to make:\u00a0\u00a0I am not a very good cook.\u00a0\u00a0I could tell some pretty good stories about some times I\u2019ve tried to cook and made <a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-21.jpeg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-5516\" title=\"images (21)\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-21.jpeg?resize=225%2C225\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.reliefsocietywomen.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-21.jpeg?w=225&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.reliefsocietywomen.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-21.jpeg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>an epic failure. There\u2019s the salmon soup that was so bad our neighbor\u2019s cats wouldn\u2019t even finish it.\u00a0\u00a0There\u2019s the explosive potato and jalapeno\u00a0soup.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0There\u2019s the spinach soup that erupted from the blender.\u00a0\u00a0There\u2019s the cookies without sugar and the bran muffin without the rising agent that could have doubled as hockey pucks.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-25.jpeg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-5518\" title=\"images (25)\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-25-150x150.jpg?resize=150%2C150\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I used to think that I could go through my life and depend on others to cook for me, since somehow I missed out on the practice and experience of cooking.\u00a0\u00a0In BYU wards, Relief Society service seemed to be mostly lending a listening ear, so my sad lack of cooking experience was not yet a disadvantage.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0But when I got back into family wards, I found that cooking was the gold standard of emergency service.\u00a0\u00a0Since I didn\u2019t feel confident as a cook, the thought of providing a meal to another family was frightening.\u00a0\u00a0I grew up in a family that had several different dishes at dinner and when I cooked, I struggled to make just one.\u00a0\u00a0I felt like others would look down on a meal with only one dish.\u00a0\u00a0My husband and I were used to a one-dish meal, but I didn\u2019t think others would appreciate it much.<\/p>\n<p>I could serve other ways in Relief Society\u2014I could act as a back-up pianist for any kind of musical number because of my sight-reading ability.\u00a0\u00a0I could substitute teach church lessons.\u00a0\u00a0But I was terrified the compassionate service leader would call me to ask me to make a meal for people, and I was always embarrassed if sign-up sheets went around asking for volunteers to provide meals for families.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I didn\u2019t mind putting together a treat for a ward function, but full meals scared me.\u00a0\u00a0I felt really guilty about this too because cooking is a big part of being self-reliant.\u00a0\u00a0A person who could cook for\u00a0themselves could feed their family well.\u00a0\u00a0Food was a basic necessity of life, and I couldn\u2019t provide that for myself.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-22.jpeg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-5519\" title=\"images (22)\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-22-150x150.jpg?resize=150%2C150\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" 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take a meal to someone, I should say that I could provide a side dish <a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/128-sweet-peas-with-prosciutto400.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-5521\" title=\"128-sweet-peas-with-prosciutto400\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/128-sweet-peas-with-prosciutto400-150x150.jpg?resize=150%2C150\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.reliefsocietywomen.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/128-sweet-peas-with-prosciutto400.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.reliefsocietywomen.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/128-sweet-peas-with-prosciutto400.jpg?zoom=2&amp;resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>or part of a meal if someone else could provide the other part so that I wouldn\u2019t have\u00a0the pressure of making a whole meal.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For me, this strategy has worked.\u00a0\u00a0It means I feel confident that I can serve when asked, and I can share at a level that I am capable of.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-24.jpeg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5520\" title=\"images (24)\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ldswomenofgod.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/images-24.jpeg?resize=270%2C187\" alt=\"\" width=\"270\" height=\"187\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our Guest Post today is from Michaela Stephens. Her blog can be found here. I have a confession to make:\u00a0\u00a0I am not a very good cook.\u00a0\u00a0I could tell some pretty good stories about some times I\u2019ve tried to cook and made an epic failure. 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